Saturday, June 26, 2010

Flowers - Let's start from the very beginning...

Let's start from the very beginning...  A very good place to start. When you read you begin with A, B, C; when you sing you begin with Do, Re, Mi...
Well, with flowers I thought  good place to start would be to think about which flowers would be in season (and therefore theoretically cheaper). Alas, I could find no list. Until... FMIL Allison found for me that which I hunted for so long... A list of when flowers are in season in NZ! Yay! Because most of the blogs I look at are American or Australian, there's no way I could trust their  list of flowers and seasons and colours and whatnot.
Of course, she found it on the first google - I must have been searching the wrong thing. Ah well, anyways, the two most useful links for flowers: 
 Which means I can now think about flowers...

Flowers Part 1. What flowers? 

First step is to visit Is My Flower In Season? 
Choose flowers based on the month. 
*Problem: I don't know what any of those flowers look like. 
*Solution: Google them all. 
*Problem: That's going to take forever, Kiwa!!
*Solution: Do it at work when you have nothing else do. 
--> Problem solved.

Flowers I like (because I'm rather certain Grant doesn't really care, but yes, he will have the ability to voice an opinion once I've narrowed down the choices):

Carnation spray (these are fake silk ones but you get the idea)



 Chysanthemums - they come in yellow and white.


 Daffodils. They also come in white or yellow.

Earilicheer daffodils.

Freesia. They come in yellow or cream



 Gypsophilia (Baby's Breath). Gorgeous, as a filler but also all by itself. And don't tell me it's a weed.



 Lillium Asiatic.


 Lillium Casablanca


 Lisianthus



 Orchid Cymbidium



Paper White
Rose - English Cream


Snapdragons

Sunflowers (of course)







Flowers Part 2. How to display them?

If it's possible, I'd like to do our flowers myself. By "myself" I mean with the help of very patient, willing, enthusiastic, wondeful friends and family... right? Right? *silence* ... Ahem. We'll cover that later. 

Anyway, where was I? Oh yes, I'd like to DIT (like DIY but in a team :D ) the flowers. In my head they're really simple - a few blooms in various glass vases/jars/bottles of different heights/sizes, to match tealight/votive candles in glass vases/jars/bottles of different heights/sizes. Surely that shouldn't be too difficult, right? Right? *silence* ... Oh dear, we're going to have to work on communication people, I think. 

Realistically, I arrange flowers all the time. You mix different heights with leaves and big petals with little buds and you move them around til they look nice in the vase. And if we're coming back to NZ at least a week (if not longer, which will likely be possible given the date which I'm not sure if we're telling everyone - besides wedding party - yet or not), that should be more than enough time... In theory...


Flowers Part 3. How to acquire them?
I have no idea. I googled "flower market near Wellington" and didn't get much. Four possible flower wholesalers, although I'm suspect because they're all in the same neck of the woods in Grenada North except for one in Pauatahanui:
  1. Central Flower Wholesalers
  2. Market Gardeners Ltd
  3. Double D Wholesalers Ltd
  4. McGavin Flowers Ltd
Does anyone have any ideas for flower wholesalers/markets? I'm thinking I'll probs get a florist to make the bouquet, but for the tables we should be able to DIT...

*love love love love love*
Kiwa.



Inspiration (Boards)

Well, apparently I'm supposed to use an inspiration board whilst planning to keep my brain from overloading on wedding thoughts. Right. 
Now, because I'm so overloaded with wedding thoughts, I'm collating inspiration boards to come up with my own inspiration board. 

Eugh. 

First of all, I suppose we should try to nail down some of the inspirational things, right? 
Here's a snippet of a post from snippet & ink
Things that I think about when I make these boards are:

1. What season is it?
2. What is the mood of the event? Is it formal, casual, or something in between? Is it grand or intimate? Sophisticated? Playful?
3. What is the location? Inside or out-of-doors? How can I play up regional/local elements? Does the architecture/scenery inspire me?
4. What single element can tie everything together? Is it a theme? A certain flower or fruit?
5. How can I stretch this idea? What is unexpected but fits perfectly with all the other aspects?

So here they are (feel free to vote on your favourite):
Mostly I like the candles in jars, the shoes and the thank you note - here is a better image.  
The gumboots are so cute. If it's looking like it's a remote possibility of raining, I think I'm completely justified in (somehow) obtaining yellow gumboots. The umbrellas are gorgeous. And the black cake stand with yellow topped cupcakes!!!
And another Inspiring Brides post. Yep, I just clicked on the "yellow" tag and flicked through them all ;)
How cute is the yellow cardigan?! And the shoes... *swoon* Not so sure about the flowers in the glass vase, but I'm liking the idea.
This one is from Amorology Weddings.
I'm loving the damask patterns, and the mix of simple yellow and white flowers. I bought some fabric the other day with similar-ish black white and yellow damask-ey pattern which I should show you...












So in reply to those questions from the beginning: 
  1. What season is it? - Autumn
  2. 2. What is the mood of the event? Is it formal, casual, or something in between? Is it grand or intimate? Sophisticated? Playful? - Intimate, semi-formal. The party will be casual as.
  3. 3. What is the location? Inside or out-of-doors? How can I play up regional/local elements? Does the architecture/scenery inspire me? - Inside, gothic-ish architecture in the chapel, chandeliers in the ballroom.
  4. 4. What single element can tie everything together? Is it a theme? A certain flower or fruit? - Colours: yellow, ivory, black. Pattern: polka dots or damask? Glass vases/jars for the flowers?
  5. 5. How can I stretch this idea? What is unexpected but fits perfectly with all the other aspects? - I have no idea. What a lame question. If I knew, it wouldn't be unexpected, would it? Or maybe it would... I'm just grumpy cos I don't know the answer :'(


*love love love love love*
Kiwa.



Saturday, June 19, 2010

A Practical Wedding (site) and Ceremony ideas

I have found my new Wedding Website home in A Practical Wedding.

Here are some of the articles from APW that I like especially.
 
I was reading one of those articles (or maybe it was a different one, I don't remember well) over at A Practical Wedding when I realised that for the last 6 months I've been engaged, I've focused and fussed and spent countless hours on the internet looking at all the pretty things that we could have in our wedding, but nothing about the actual ceremony. A couple of the articles at APW reminded me that the pretty things should be inconsequential when compared to the ceremony - the most important thing really, isn't it? The whole point and idea of a wedding is that we're committing and promising, in front of our loved ones, to build a life together. We're promising to create happy memories, share new adventures, and help each other grow into better people.

I feel slightly guilty that up until now, the most I've thought about the ceremony is that it won't be a full Liturgical or Nuptial Catholic Mass and that it not be long and boring. 

Hang on. That's the completely wrong way to be looking at this, isn't it? That the moment my beloved and I come together as one unit not be "boring"?! 

I'm struggling, though, to create even a basic idea of what our ceremony should be like if it's not a Catholic Mass. For better or worse (Grant), all my ideas of love, marriage and unions are based on the Bible, in particular Catholic teachings; but I know you're not interested in that at all. Also, when I think of some of the beautiful phrases and avowals of love from the Bible, I just can't picture them coming out of Grant's mouth seriously... As he's said, we're not an overtly romantic couple; there haven't been any huge declarations of love - we started going out because of a text that said "Will you go out with me?" or something along those lines... So even though in my head revolves images of a princess-perfect wedding where we quote Song of Songs "I am my beloved's and my beloved is mine", "With this ring, you are made holy to me, for I love you as my soul. You are now my wife." (source), I really don't see us espousing romantic quotes like that and keeping a straight face... 

Even some of the civil wedding self-written vows here sound a bit silly when I imagine Grant saying them. But, maybe I'm doing him a disservice and doubting him before he's had a chance to prove himself? Some of them sound quite nice now I read them over a few more times...

One vow I know I  don't like is: "______, do you take ______ to be your legal wedded wife/husband, to have and to hold from this day forward?" or those boring similar ones "for better for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, blah blah blah". But that's just me. We'll see what Grant wants to do, hmmm?

So, because I want to concentrate on the most important part of our wedding, here are some ideas of vows that are growing on me.


*love love love love love*
Kiwa.



Thursday, June 17, 2010

Stationery and Inspiration 17 June

Today's post is about stationery. And pretty weddings and interesting things over the last week or so. 

It seems I have stationery on the brain - well, it's one of the few things I get to visualise and create from start to finish so this might be expected. There are a number of different pieces of a stationery suite to think about, and hopefully have co-ordinate. Thankfully, The Knot (Australia) have a good article about which pieces of stationery are needed. 
However, before I get anywhere I need to decide what kind of style I - we want and I'm stuck between wanting to be vaguely traditional, modern, funky, cartoony or somewhere in between... Here are some I've seen (comments welcome):




















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And now for the Inspiration part of this post

Martha Stewart's post on "Special touches for wedding invitations"

New favourite weddings:
Including their stationery suite and her flowers:



 
















 Look at their yellow and white polka-dot tablecloths!














Once Wed's Mark & Allison (their invitation is above). Their whole wedding gallery is yellow and swoon-worthy. Highlights include:
  Table decorations

Flowers and bridesmaid dress and flowers















 

A new blog I discovered, Snippet & Ink, posted this gorgeous wedding. I'm loving their table decorations:
















Interesting articles over the last week


In some respects, we are kind of having a Destination Wedding, with a reasonable number of people coming from overseas (hopefully!) and our planning from far away. This article about what to put in a destination wedding welcome bag on The Knot is interesting. 


A new colour palette to consider with Martha Stewart Weddings.

Thinking about Wedding Songs? Maybe a little bit. The Knot had a "Wedding Song" week or some-such nonsense and had these articles: 

*love love love love love*
Kiwa.




Tuesday, June 15, 2010

Update 15 June

What's new? How are things going with you? Good, good. Me - I mean, us? Well, since you asked... 
  • More inspiration to be posted soon
  • Bridal Party is pretty much decided and asked (and accepted - yay!) 
  • Wedding Venue (Erskine) was visited by very helpful elves, Lydia and Teia, and we should maybe hopefully theoretically possibly have a confirmed venue soon - which means a date! 
  • Once a date is confirmed, I'll be able to talk to one super-talented and wonderful Hannah Jo for her help designing the Save-the-dates.
Not much else is really happening. It's kinda stasiss hibernating mode really until a date and then it's all on!!! :D

Oh, what do you think of the new background/layout? Blogspot/Blogger now lets you edit heaps more so that's cool. 

And, I'm designing an actual wedding website on WordPress - easier to have pages and whatnot than blogger - for information that can't/shouldn't go on the invitations. That should be fun.

*love love love love love*
Kiwa.



Tuesday, June 1, 2010

Inspiration 2 June - Honeymoons and other things.

Greetings!

Grant has officially finished his 12 week challenge with Flight Centre and hasn't he done well?! He's lost:
  • 15kgs
  • 20cms from his abdomen
  • beats in his resting heart-rate
  • general sleepiness
  • some negative attitude towards exercise/activity
The first prize in the competition is $15,000 of travel with Kumuka. Apparently, $15k of travel with them is a lot of travel - check out some of their tours to Africa and the Middle East. Even though Grant's done really well, there's no guarantee he's going to win, which got me thinking about Honeymoons.

Traditionally, the Groom is supposed to organise the honeymoon, and Grant has said that he will, but I can't help thinking about it - especially if we were to get it for free! Ok. I need to stop thinking about him winning because I'm going to jinx it and then we'll get nothing :(

So, here are some honeymoon inspirations I've had over the last week or so.

Wednesday, May 12, 2010

Inspiration 12 May

This week there's been some great stuff from the newsletters. And here we go... 


Project Wedding had a DIY competition going on and this is some of the cool stuff that made it up
The Knot was all about photography and videography this week
Martha Stewart Weddings reminded me that I love ice cream and why shouldn't I have it at my wedding... I mean our wedding... ;)

100 Layer Cake had this wedding as their Real Wedding of the week and I love the vintage, intimate, casual feel of it. Stunning photography and colours too.

Style Me Pretty featured this gorgeous ballroom wedding, a nice contrast to all the outdoors/budget-chic/cocktail weddings that are being featured everywhere (and that make me jealous that we're not having a totally DIY/vintagey wedding... *sigh*). It looks über-traditional in a way I think we're going with... Have to check with His Lordship on that... 
But they also had this Australian wedding - I love the vineyard (jealous!) and the simple round tables. And this super cute outdoors casual-chic wedding where I love the colour palate (yellow and pastels I think?), every little detail in the photos is just heart-breakingly cute... 

And the Design*Sponge featured these Australian stationery designers. Cute!

Ok. This wasn't from any of my newsletters/blog subscriptions/stalkings, but rather a random search on Etsy (which is fully the best site ever for handmade crafty things!). Guess which one Grant doesn't like?

Original Etsy post here.
Original Etsy post here.

Original Etsy post here.
Original Etsy post here.

Ah.... That might be all? 
Oh dear. It's way past my bedtime now... :|


*love love love love love*
Kiwa.