So. Like everything else I'm planning, there's AGES before the bridal shower/hen's night. But in my usual OCD nature, I simply have to search and share what I've found. And what I have found is.... The Knot's Real Weddings: Retro Bridal Shower And it's gorgeous! See the pictures? Especially the "Pimp my cupcake" idea. See, I'm not too keen on strippers and whatnot, much prefer the idea of high tea and midday/afternoon cocktails! As always, comments welcome... 
Love love love love love
Kiwa.
